why girls never text first

                   why girls never text first

credit : Adam Taha , Artist and writer passionate about psychology of dating, LILA MILI

Depends. I have many who find me online, add me, follow send messages, and even lead to texting. These are confident women and I admire their confidence. It is very rare to have that but that's what I attract.

If I was you, I'd not wait. Lead.

I am not saying there is something happening. Anything could be happening. She's busy, this is happening and that is happening. Nothing to do with you at all and it's just part of life.

So don't see anything into things.

A phone number is not a date.

You need to follow through and lead.

If I was you right now - is text because she will have all sorts in her head. Lots of hang ups, fears, million thing going through her head:

1.Nice girls don't call first
2.If I do he might think I'm too easy
3.Might think I'm a whore
4.Might think I'm a slut
5. Oooh maybe if I don't show interest, wait and he text first Ooooh :D

I would advise you to text her but text fun, light hearted first until you get to know her and then you can be a little romantic when you date, building comfort.

Don't text boring "hey," and "hi" and "how you doing."

Text something fun. Make her laugh, smile, feel alive.

Then after good responses, lead to phone and talk.

After a couple talk on phone say..

"Hey I know this great place in city Centre and thought I'd also check other places out. I'm going on Wednesday or Thursday. How about we go and check out together. What you like on Wednesday and Thursday (suggest time)"